The Next Best Thing
What's the point?
That's the question many family members of dementia patients wonder when it's time to visit their loved ones who've lost their short-term memory.
Why visit when the patient's memory of the visit will fade almost immediately?
There's a one-word answer to that question: emotion.
A good feeling
Memories and emotions are deeply tied. So it's not surprising that the area of the brain that controls emotion (the limbic system) contains the hippocampus where information is converted into memory.
Also not surprising: the hippocampus is usually damaged in patients with dementia and Alzheimer's disease.
This produces a disturbing effect. Long-term memories are accessible, but new memories can't be processed. So a patient with a damaged hippocampus can remember an old friend, but can't remember that the friend paid a visit just an hour ago.
Even so, the visit still leaves an imprint on the limbic system.
University of Iowa researchers explored this phenomenon with a two-part experiment.
In part one, a group of patients (all with hippocampus damage) were shown sad film clips, such as the scene in Forrest Gump where Forrest is alone and crying at his wife's grave. These clips produced strong reactions, bringing some of the patients to tears.
Within 30 minutes of the last clip, all the patients had forgotten they'd watched the clips. But their sadness still lingered.
In the Proceedings of The National Academy of Sciences, the authors of the study write, "The patients continued to experience elevated levels of sadness well beyond the point in time at which they had lost factual memory for the film clips."
Part two of the study followed the same design, but this time the film clips were funny or inspiring. And the basic result was the same. Within minutes, the film clips were forgotten, but good feelings remained long after.
In an NPR report about the study, Justin Feinstein, leader of the UI team, offered this advice for caretakers: "Telling them a simple joke, calling them up on the phone, giving them a visit, could actually have these enormous positive benefits."
In "Take Good Care" (11/17/10), I told you about my friend Betty, a diabetic since childhood, who was diagnosed with vascular dementia at age 51.
Like the patients in the Iowa study, Betty's hippocampus is damaged so her short-term memory lasts only a few minutes. She now lives in an excellent assisted living facility where family members, such as her husband Donald, are invited to special events such as barbeques, ice cream socials and karaoke parties.
When I talked to Donald and told him about the Iowa study, he was impressed and agreed completely with the results. Betty never remembers the special events, but her spirits are lifted for hours afterward.
He agrees that Feinstein's advice is sound: On days when no events are planned, the length of the visit isn't important, as long as the mood is as positive and upbeat as possible.
About the author

Jenny Thompson is the Director of the Health Sciences Institute and editor of the HSI e-Alert. Through HSI, she and her team uncover important health information and expose ridiculous health misinformation, most notably through the HSI e-Alert.
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Comments
Anonymous
Even though they tend to forget after the events, the spirit lingers and this is one of the reasons they will be in a better mood afterwards, so all these connections where as the brain matter is affected the spirit is there, is not a waste of time to visit and surround these persons with love and respect, physically they have a problem, but somehow they sense the presence of the loved ones and they find peace within. JAM
Alice Wessendorf
JAM,
Thanks so much for sharing your insightful and positive comment. I couldn't have put it more eloquently or beautifully.
Anonymous
I agree wholeheartedly, Jam and Alice. We are electro-chemical beings and whatever reaction we bring about in another will naturally run its course.
There is one thing I have observed. Not remembering a visit can cause misunderstandings between family members and start a negative reaction. Because of this I would suggest that we supply a visitors book where our visit is recorded with the date. This would eliminate misunderstandings and more importantly make the patient feel loved and appreciated. Neil.
Alice Wessendorf
Neil (Anonymous 3),
What an excellent idea! It can serve as a sweet keepsake for your loved one and at the same time head off the kinds of misunderstandings that would get in the way of a nice visit.
Thanks for sharing this Neil!
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